December 2007
Dating Tip O' the Month
The Big 3 – Most Popular Blog Posts from August
Links to Love
Evan's Endeavors
Testimonial of
the Month
'Til We Meet
Again
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Why December is Great for Dating (You Save Money!)

As we close out the year, I've got an action-packed newsletter in store for you. There are the usual articles, blog posts, and success stories, of course. But this edition of my newsletter has something that I've never offered before: hundreds of dollars in savings!

Since the theme of the month is Dating in December, I will be offering 20% off ALL of my products thru December 21st. And when I say ALL, I mean ALL.

E-Cyrano Profile Writing? 20% off!
My CD: How to Write a Profile That Attracts People You Want To Meet? 20% off!
My eBook of six online dating articles? 20% off!
ALL of my coaching services – online dating, dating, phone, email 20% off!

So if you're purchasing the first three things online, just put in the product code: Dec07

And if you call me for private dating coaching, let me know you're a newsletter subscriber by saying December07, and you'll get 20% off of my private coaching services.

I know it's the end of the year and I know that money's tight. But do yourself a favor and give yourself the most important gift in the world – the gift of love. There's never been a better time.

Remember, this offer is only valid until December 21st, so act now!

I'm at 866-432-9726 and I look forward to talking to you soon.

Warmest wishes and happy holidays,

Evan

In this issue:

Dating Tip O' The Month – Get in The Short Line
The Big 3 – Insults, Flowers and Hot Women.
Evan's Endeavors – A free podcast and a silly Top 10 list from yours truly
 

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Get In the Short Line - Why December is Great For Dating

You walk into a McDonald's. You see two registers with a teenager behind each.

One register has three people waiting in line. The other register has none.

What do you do?

While it might seem obvious to go to the empty line, it's not that obvious. After all, there are 3 people standing in one line already. Perhaps there's something wrong with the other register. Maybe it's broken. Maybe it's closed. Maybe the teen is off duty.

It's a silly example, really, but most of us are inclined to go with the crowd. If everyone else is doing it, there's probably a good reason they're doing it. Better to follow along and not risk looking foolish than to put yourself out there and ask a dumb question.

I'm always the guy who asks the dumb question.

So if conventional wisdom suggests that December is a bad time to date, why would I disagree? Let's just say that my life experience suggests otherwise.

Click here to continue:


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How Can You Change Your Boyfriend Without Him Getting Insulted? – A: You don't.

Should Men Buy Flowers or Gifts for Women on First Dates? – I don't know. Do men want to get second dates?

If Men Only Like Hot Women, Where Does That Leave An Average Woman Like Me? – Probably very frustrated.


your links to love

Online Dating Resources

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How To Write A Profile That Attracts People You Want To Meet - A one-hour CD packed with everything you need to turn your love life around.

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E-Cyrano
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Dating Advice for Women and Men


top online dating sites
Understanding Men
Alison Armstrong knows more about men than men themselves. Pick up a CD, sign up for a seminar, but for your own sake, you MUST work with Alison.

 
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Catch Him and Keep Him
My man Christian Carter doles out some smart psychology to women.


top online dating sites
Double Your Dating
David DeAngelo has a wealth of information for any man looking to get an edge in communicating with women.


Evan's Stuff


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Evan's Blog
Advice From A Single Dating Expert
Because who knows more about dating than a guy who's still dating?

 
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Dating Coaching Packages
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Why You're Still Single
You know you've asked yourself this very question...

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I Can't Believe I'm Buying This Book
Everything you wanted to know about online dating but were afraid to ask.

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Evan's Articles
Easy to Read Dating Advice From Match, Yahoo, JDate, AOL, and Cupid


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Last month, I did a podcast for a show called "A Fly On The Wall – What Men Really Say About Women." It was a lot of fun and I really let down my guard during this fast and entertaining 36 minute interview. Click here to listen for free!
Also, a short piece on Yahoo, called 10 Secrets About Men. No angry emails about this one, although a few buff male commenters need to learn to take a joke.

 

 
testimonials A very thoughtful letter from one of my first E-Cyrano clients in 2003. She is now happily married.

Thanks, Evan!

I think what you're doing is important. Life is much better when you live it with love. My life is the best it's ever been - I have the love of my life, my kids, meaningful work, and I'm healthy. When challenges come, Steve reminds me that we share them. I live on a whole new plane today. I am more relaxed, more self-assured and appreciate each day. I knew this was possible - getting here was the challenge.

We have a lot of superstitions about love. It's work to find the right person - especially when you're out of a natural "pool" like college. It IS like a job search only much more important and much more encompassing. Thinking you'll just stumble across the right person is really crazy when you think about it. What else in life that's worth having is that happenstance? Knowing how to present yourself and who you really are is very important. Ultimately, a lot of life is sales - and in this case, the marketing is critical to find that one unique "buyer".

Having support in the process is critical, too. It's good you have your blog to dispel untrue myths and preconceived notions. It also gives support that family and friends may not provide - particularly if they married their childhood sweetheart or are mostly interested in having grandchildren! Surviving the process and not becoming bitter and cynical is important.

Good luck to you! Hope your work - and your love life - are thriving!

Linda


Thank YOU, Linda. I couldn't have said it better myself. And if you're wondering how you can get what Linda got, click here to take the first step.

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Finally, I just want to wish you a happy and healthy New Year. I know dating is filled with ups and downs, and I just hope that you can continue to stay positive in your pursuit of love.

My warmest holiday wishes.

Your friend,

Evan