January 2008
Dating Tip O' the Month
The Big 3 – Most Popular Blog Posts from December
Links to Love
Testimonial of
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'Til We Meet
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You Can’t Always Get What You Want – Or CAN You?

Happy New Year!

Before we get to this month's juicy articles, I need your opinion.

See, in a few weeks, I'm giving a speech at the Internet Dating Conference in Miami. It's all about what the online dating industry can do to improve your user experience.

So if you have any complaints or suggestions for the dating site CEO's (and I'm sure you do!), this is your chance to speak up.

Just fill out this short survey in the next three days and your voice will be heard loud and clear. For your participation, you will receive my online dating eBook (normally valued at $4.99 on my site) absolutely FREE.

Warmest wishes – and don't forget to keep reading this newsletter...

Your friend,

Evan


In this issue:
Dating Tip O' The Month – You Can't Always Get What You Want – Part II
The Big 3 – Flirting and Sex and Neediness. A predictable list with unpredictable results
Your Links to Love – Alison Armstrong on YouTube!
 

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You Can't Always Get What You Want

First off, I love the folks at Yahoo! Personals. And I'm very grateful that they ran my piece on their home page on December 29th. But because I'm an egocentric writer, I wanted to give you guys the unabridged version of the article I wrote for them.

I feel very strongly about this concept and I hope you enjoy it...

If you're single, you've probably experienced a moment of relationship perfection.

Maybe it was a blissful vacation romance that was doomed from the start. Maybe it was torrid three-month love affair that burned out too quickly. Maybe it was a passionate relationship that ended in a painful breakup.

While it might seem that the common denominator between those tales is the unadulterated happiness, in fact, the thread binding them it this:

All of those relationships ended.

Click here to continue:


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My Boyfriend Is Staring at and Flirting With Other Women
- Might I suggest stabbing him in the eyes with a fork? He'll get the hint.

I Think Sex Is Wrong Outside Marriage. Why Won't Anybody Date Me? – Because morals and virtue are sooo 20th century...

Am I "Needy" If I Want to Talk to The Woman I'm Seeing Online? – Depends. Are you showing up in her driveway with a dozen roses and a mariachi band?


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Online Dating Resources

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Special plug this month to my friend, Alison Armstrong, whose CDs and seminars are truly priceless. For a taste of her wit and wisdom, check out this short YouTube clip on why women try to change men.

If you like that, you'll LOVE her products below.

Click here to purchase Alison's workshop "In Sync With the Opposite Sex" on CD. I've taken this course live and can vouch for her material. You will not be disappointed.

Click here to attend Alison's two day workshop for women, "Celebrating Men, Satisfying Women" (available in LA, New York, San Diego, San Francisco, and Portland). As I am not a woman, I have not attended, but I have friends who SWEAR by this course.

Click here to attend Alison's FREE three hour seminar, "Making Sense of Men". (available in LA, New York, San Diego, San Francisco, and Portland). Perfect if you're looking for an intro to Alison without plunking down a dime.


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Dating Advice for Women and Men


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Understanding Men
Alison Armstrong knows more about men than men themselves. Pick up a CD, sign up for a seminar, but for your own sake, you MUST work with Alison.

 
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Catch Him and Keep Him
My man Christian Carter doles out some smart psychology to women.


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Double Your Dating
David DeAngelo has a wealth of information for any man looking to get an edge in communicating with women.


Evan's Stuff


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Evan's Blog
Advice From A Single Dating Expert
Because who knows more about dating than a guy who's still dating?

 
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Why You're Still Single
You know you've asked yourself this very question...

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I Can't Believe I'm Buying This Book
Everything you wanted to know about online dating but were afraid to ask.

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Evan's Articles
Easy to Read Dating Advice From Match, Yahoo, JDate, AOL, and Cupid

 
testimonials Another former private client gets hitched.

Hi Evan,

It's official -- Mara and I were just married on November 24th!

Hope you have a great holiday season!

Sumner Chase


Sumner worked with me last year on a one month Premium Package.

What are you waiting for?

Hope you had a joyous and healthy New Year's celebration and that you're looking forward to an exciting winter of love. Valentine's Day is just around the corner, so you'd better get moving.

Oh, and a final reminder to fill out my short survey to receive my $4.99 online dating eBook for free.

Stay warm. Date well.

Your friend,

Evan