Men Who Hotlist Women and the Women Who Hate Them

This month’s newsletter is short, sweet, and packed with smart advice, big discounts, and useful products. So keep reading if you want to get your love life where you want it to be.

Happy reading!

Your friend,

Evan

In this issue:

This month's question has gotten more reader responses than every other article I've written so far. Check it out and let me know what YOU think…

Dear Evan,

I belong to a dating website that has "winks" and "hotlists" as features. One thing that confuses me to no end is why a man would wink and/or hotlist me, but never write! On a few occasions, I have written to these men to interact with them, but they have not written back. Some of them still continue to "hotlist" me even weeks later.

What gives?

Sylvia

Dear Sylvia,

Do you have a pantry? Somewhere that you store food that you're not planning on eating right this second?

That's what a hot list is for men. A pantry to keep track of all the lovely ladies who may have caught their eyes while browsing…

Click here to keep reading Why Does He Put Me On His Favorites List and Never Write?

How to Write A Profile That Attracts The People You Want to Meet

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Evan’s on CBS!

On Wednesday, July 18th, keep your eyes peeled for me during the second hour of The Early Show (8-9am) on CBS. The taped segment will showcase me and a private client, by putting a camera in both of our homes while we work together. This client has worked with me for just over a month and has already found a promising relationship on Match.com, in spite of the fact that he’s 5’3”. More importantly, he’s a delightful guy who deserves all the success he’s having. So if you can’t catch The Early Show live, set your TiVos for this must-see (for my mom) event.

June might have been the best month I've ever had as a dating coach, and I wanted briefly share some of my clients' stories with you:

A 29-year-old woman came to me after uncomfortably dabbling on JDate for a few months. With her new profile, she had over 80 men write to her on the FIRST day.

A 33-year-old divorced man came to me in spring. After three months of coaching, he's already found himself the first committed relationship he's had since his breakup.

A 38-year-old single man came to me after flailing around on Match for a few months. After one month of coaching, he has had over 50 women write to him, including some who ignored his emails in the past. He says that his confidence has never been higher.

Finally, a 53-year-old single woman came to me after I helped her younger sister find a husband last year. After only one month of coaching, she's already found a boyfriend.

Needless to say, I'm thrilled. I'm no matchmaker, and I'm not a psychologist. All I do is make the most of what you have and give you power over your love life.

And if that interests you, well, you know where you can find me.